Blogger and mammy Ruth Chambers' weekly take on toddler and parenting dramas
This time last year I wrote a post for my own blog all about Aidan heading off to playschool for the very first time.
I worried about how he’d get on, about whether his speech delay would hold him back and about whether he’d fit in.
I need not have worried. He flew it. He loved playschool.
He’s started a new playschool recently though. I’m not as worried as I was last year he, himself, was slightly nervous.
He’s off to a naíonra, an all-Irish playschool and so far he is flying it, loves it in fact.
Had you asked me twelve months ago if I thought he would have been able for a naíonra, my answer would have been an emphatic no.
In twelve months though, my little boy has come on in leaps and bounds. He doesn’t have a speech delay anymore, indeed he never stops talking now.
He can count to ten as Gaeilge, has bainne going to bed and his favourite nursery rhyme is ‘A haon, a dó, muc is bó’.
We’ve been speaking the cúpla focal a lot at home and he just picks it up effortlessly, so I have no concerns about flourishing in naíonra.
So why a naíonra and hopefully a Gaelscoil next September?
There are a number of reasons. Firstly is the fact the Grandad Chambers is a Gaeilgeoir, indeed he didn’t even speak English until he left Tourmakeady in Mayo to work in London in his late teens. Daddy Chambers had no proper interest in the language growing up and it’s a regret of his.
I personally think Irish in not taught correctly in national schools. I don’t want learning Irish, and Irish culture to be a chore for Aidan and Sarah.
I’m also of the opinion that speaking two languages is only a good thing. There’s also evidence that suggest that children who learn through the medium of Irish find it easier to learn additional languages, which is only a good thing in my mind.
So many friends have asked myself and Daddy Chambers if we’ll be able to handle helping the kids with homework if they do go on to the Gaelscoil.
I don’t think it’s going to be a problem. I was very good at Irish in school and although I wouldn’t be able to hold a full conversation as Gaeilge, I would be able to listen to one and understand 99 per cent of it.
Things like that are only a problem if you let them be. To be sure I’ve enrolled myself in a refresher course in Irish and we’ll all plough on from there.
Grandad Chambers is going to help too. He talks a lot of Irish to the kids when we visit and although they don’t talk back to him as Gaeilge, they seem to understand almost every instruction he gives them. It’s lovely to see and I know Grandad is very excited and proud that Aidan is off to the Naíonra. And so am I.
Aidan, or should I say Aodhán, has múinteoirí who only speak Irish to him; it’s known as the early immersion model.
He can answer and speak in English naturally and I can’t wait for his little Irish vocabulary to grow.
In January Sarah will join her big brother in naíonra and I have no worries about her heading off either. Indeed she’s quite mature for her age and would probably be ready to go now but because she’s not three until December, the naíonra won’t take her for her first ECCE year until after Christmas.
Hopefully with Aidan coming home with the cúpla focal, she’ll pick it up and slot in seamlessly in the new year.
So from here on in I’m going to refer to Daddy Chambers as Daddy Mac Ambráis, Aidan as Aodhán ac Ambráis and herself as Sorcha Nic Ambráis!
Ah, níl mé ach ag magadh; I’m only joking! Although those names have a lovely ring to them all the same.
You can see more from Ruth over on her blog It's Just a Phase.