'I couldn't believe it' Laois mother of twins with autism wins national Irish carer award

The endless care and hard work of a Laois mother of four boys has won her the title of the Netwatch Family Carer of the Year 2024.

Family Carers Ireland has chosen Sarah Dooley, from Debbicot, Mountmellick for their highest annual honour.

Sarah, a mother of four boys - John and Patrick (5), Cathail (7), and Eoin (9) - has shown extraordinary strength and dedication in caring for her children, overcoming immense challenges to ensure they receive the love and support they need.

Her youngest boys, twins John and Patrick, are autistic and non-verbal, while Cathail has been undergoing treatment for leukaemia for the past three years, requiring constant hospital visits.

Despite these significant demands, Sarah fought tirelessly to secure school placements for John and Patrick and has put her career on hold to care for her children full-time. The charity says that her commitment and resilience embody the spirit of family carers across Ireland.

Sarah spoke to the Leinster Express / Laois Live after the ceremony.

"I couldn't believe it, I was shocked. When you hear what all the other people go through, and what they do, really anyone who is a carer deserves an award. As a mother, you just do it with your whole heart," she said.

She has good news on Cathail's treatment.

Family Carers Ireland patrons, Miriam O'Callaghan and Netwatch Brand Ambassador and Irish rugby legend Mick Galwey with Netwatch National Family Carer of the Year, Sarah Dooley (3rd from left) and, from left, Connacht and Galway Family Carer of the Year Maura Fahy from Renmore, Co. Galway,  Ulster and Donegal Family Carer of the Year Cathy Kelly from Carndonagh, Co. Donegal, and Munster and Limerick Family Carer of the Year Joe O’Loughlin from Athea, Co. Limerick. PHOTO: Mark Stedman

"Cathail rang the bell in Crumlin hospital recently because he has finished all his treatment. He got his hicman line out after it being in for three years and four months, it's healed so well, he can swim now and take baths, the things you take for granted. Now he just needs regular checkups," she said.

Her twins are settling into school at Borris-in-Ossory, after Sarah's huge effort to find an ASD unit in Laois to take them.

"I applied to 19 schools, so I sent 38 letters. They are settling in brilliant, it's doing them the world of good. They go in happy and come home happy on the bus. Their teacher sends me videos and pics on an app as the boys can't tell me how their day went. 

"It has been a very tough few years, but it's lovely to get the acknowledgement and the award. I couldn't have done without the help of my partner Cathail and from day one, our family support on both sides was amazing. The community's support was too, when Cathail got sick. The Rock GAA did a big fundraiser cycle. 

"People say how do you manage to be in such good form, but I say we are blessed, there are people out there a million times worse off. Yes in the thick of it it's tough but you have to be positive," Sarah said.

She attended the awards with Cathail's mother Ann Gorman and Beth from Family Carers Ireland, having been first notified that she won the Laois carer of the year, and then the Leinster title.

With the election a day after the awards, she has a message for the next Government.

"I know the carer's means test is an issue, but for me it is school places for children with additional needs. It was absolutely soul destroying trying to get a place. I only got them because I fought so hard. There are 10 or 11 ASD units 15 minutes drive from my home but they were all full. I really feel for people applying for places. It's not the schools' fault. The boys really should be in their local school and community like the other boys," Sarah Dooley said.

Catherine Cox, Head of Communications and Policy with Family Carers Ireland, praised Sarah’s exceptional dedication.

“Sarah exemplifies the incredible work of family carers across the country. Every day, family carers provide critical support, often with limited recognition or resources. They deserve more than acknowledgment—they need meaningful support, including appropriate financial compensation, respite, and access to vital therapies.

“With tomorrow’s election, it is crucial that all parties prioritise family carers and commit to tangible, meaningful support. The next government must take decisive action to address their urgent needs and fully recognise their vital role in society. Throughout this campaign, family carers have voiced their frustration with empty promises and inaction—this election must be the moment for real, lasting change.”

The Charity Ambassador and awards host is Miriam O’Callaghan. 

“Sarah’s story is one of incredible determination and love. Family carers like her play a vital role in our communities, ensuring the most vulnerable among us receive the care they need. It’s an honour to help shine a spotlight on her incredible work and the contributions of family carers across the country.”

Netwatch's Brand Ambassador is Irish rugby legend Mick Galwey. 

“Sarah’s dedication is truly remarkable. She represents the strength, compassion, and perseverance shown by family carers every day. It’s a privilege to celebrate her and highlight the importance of the work family carers do in shaping a more caring society,” he said.

The Netwatch Family Carer of the Year Awards, now in their 17th year, celebrate the extraordinary efforts of Ireland’s 500,000 family carers, who provide 19 million hours of unpaid care every week. Their contribution is invaluable, supporting loved ones with additional needs, chronic illnesses, disabilities, or mental health challenges, and saving the State an estimated €20 billion annually.

Sarah Dooley’s story, alongside those of the young carer recipients, underscores the critical role family carers play in society and the pressing need for the State to provide adequate financial support, access to therapies, and much-needed respite services.

This year’s awards also celebrated the outstanding contributions of five young carers from across Ireland. These remarkable young people have stepped up to support their families in extraordinary ways, balancing their own lives while caring for siblings and parents with additional needs. Their stories highlight the dedication, compassion, and maturity they bring to their roles, often providing vital support and comfort to their loved ones.

Leinster: Shannon Egan (16), Athlone, Co. WestmeathShannon is a dedicated carer for her sister Alanna (24), who has Koolen de Vries Syndrome and requires daily assistance. Described by their mum as her "right hand woman," Shannon is Alanna’s biggest advocate and helps with many tasks, ensuring her sister’s comfort and wellbeing. Inspired by her experience, Shannon aspires to become a genetic counsellor to support other families with rare conditions.

Munster: Ellen Gannon (11), Newcastle West, Co. Limerick Ellen provides loving care for her twin brothers Andrew and James (9), who are non-verbal and attend a special school. She assists with daily tasks such as bathing, toileting, and cleaning, while also engaging them through play, dancing, and teaching. Ellen is described as a patient and gentle soul who is adored by her brothers. Despite her responsibilities, Ellen excels in sports, enjoys art, and brings joy to everyone around her.

Connacht: Sarah Conway (11), Ballycroy, Co. Mayo Sarah supports her autistic and non-verbal brother Mick (10) with compassion and maturity. A leukaemia survivor herself, Sarah has always shown resilience, helping her parents care for Mick by being an extra pair of hands and a source of emotional support. Her selflessness and kind heart make her an invaluable part of her family.

Ulster: Lucy Connor (14), Carrickmacross, Co. Monaghan Lucy, described as her family’s “little rock,” helps care for her autistic brother, her mum, and recently has been helping to support her dad due the sudden onset of a long-term illness. She has a unique bond with her brother, understanding his needs and calming him during difficult moments. Lucy’s caring nature and empathy shine through in all she does, and her family is grateful for her unwavering support.

Dublin: Senan Vaughan (12), Rathfarnham, Co. Dublin Senan cares for his siblings Abby (10), who has a chromosomal disorder and autism, and Eoghan (7), who is autistic and non-speaking. He assists with daily routines, helps Abby prepare for school, reads her bedtime stories, and ensures her safety in public. Senan also provides comfort and support for Eoghan, showing patience and kindness. His mum says that while Senan carries a huge amount of responsibility, he is very proud of his siblings.